Wednesday, January 10, 2007

THOUGHTS '3' -updated version #3

"Fear is nothing but absence of love. Do something with love, forget about fear. If you love well, fear disappears."
-Osho


I'm gonna start filling in number 6 onwards plus input my comments and further thoughts about the points..Do feel free to input more comments!! :)

I was just talking to Nana (my best friend) about stuff when the topic of 'matters of the heart' came up. I realized that I have actually forgotten what it feels like to LIKE someone..Strange huh...yeah well..that's me I guess..lol

My weird conclusions -

1) So when you look into his/her eyes and you want to concentrate on what he/she is talking about but you realize you can't because you are having this light-headed feeling and all you can think about is how it would be like to kiss him/her and you just want to look into his/her eyes forever if you can.

2) You are DELIRIOUSLY happy when you're with him/her.

3) You don't mind making a fool of yourself...sometimes.

4) You think about him/her.

5) You have the urge to communicate often. (but don't do it as it might piss him/her off!).....


6) Love is a feeling so ever strong that you could risk everything of yours, including your life, for the person you like when it is being treated nicely, but when betrayed, it is such a destructive force that can destroy every single thing which you have built up with ur love one over years within a matter of seconds.

(contributed by Ken) My comment:[True but can be avoided as long as one is not selfish with the space needed between two lovers..also, not to confuse 'betrayal' with pettiness)


7) You want him/her to have the best, even if she/he may not know you're the one, or even may not appreciate if he/she know it is you.
Or simply, you just want to go out with him/her more often. =)

(contributed by Hyperamos) My comment: [A giving spirit without expecting much in return..Same sentiment as myself..It's not easy to be this way though..unless you are truly in LOVE]


8) You find it hard to sleep; not necessarily consciously thinking about the other person but because your heart is racing...
You find it harder to tease the person the same way as when (or if) you were just friends.

(contributed by lu) My comment:[maybe this is the reason why i cannot sleep..lol]


9) He/she is the person that you keep thinking before you sleep and the first thing you wake up!!
Suddenly everyone in the street looks like him/her;)
All his/her words sounds like poetry!!

(contributed by ugly dude naz) My comment: [Can be true but sounds to me more like an infatuation?]

10) The thought of losing his/her friendship brings so much pain that you would rather remain friends than take the risk of telling him/her. If he/she doesn't like you, and he/she knows you like him/her, things might become awkward and never be the same again.

(contributed by Emilee) [ok fine..For the non risk-takers, this point is valid. however, it's always better to be as honest as you can..sometimes we're just waiting for the right time, a suitable situation to do something about it, or just to wait for the other party to make the first move( only if he/she happens to share the same feelings)..if not, things are better left just as they are]

11) When you want to dedicate En Vogue's 'Dont Let Go' to him/her. Lyrics are below..


12) When I really click with someone, I feel energised - as in, in their presence, I can keep on going no matter what. I feed off their energy. I could work around the clock with them, and never stop working. The hours pass fast.
The vastness of life, spread like the desert, collapses down to reveal a great canyon, a river flowing through it that pulsates with electricity. You could curl there, on an island by the river, for hours with that person - the desert above freezes, but you are warm.

(contributed by bha'ral)My comment:[very true..along the lines of being deliriously happy, very distracted and time passing too fast..sigh..i miss feeling this way..]


13) When you will go to any extend to put a smile on his/her face, even if it means sacrificing yourself in more ways than one.

[The important point to note here is that you will never want him/her to find out!! As you are doing it for him/her to make him/her happy, you definitely do not want him/her to find out or he/she will feel bad, guilty and he/she will feel like he/she owes you something, which is not a good feeling to have!!]


14) You lose concentration, everything reminds you of him/her. You talk about him/her nonstop. Your best friend tells you to shut up because his/her ears cannot take it anymore. LOL :p



ok people..I OFFICIALLY NEED HELP..I can only come up with 5 and that's just sad!!
Anyone of you out there who have better conclusions PLEASE PLEASE do leave a comment here!


#I have been a naughty naughty girl.

En Vogue - Don't Let Go

What's it gonna be?
Cuz I can't pretend
Don't you wanna be more than friends?
Hold me tight and don't let go
Don't let go
Have the right to lose control
Don't let go

I often tell myself
That we could be more than just friends
I know you think that if we move too soon
It would all end
I live in misery when you're not around
And I won't be satisfied 'till we're taking those vows
There'll be some love making, heart breaking, soul shaking
Oh, love making, heart breaking, soul shaking

I often fantasize
The stars above are watching you
They know my heart and speak to yours
Like only lovers do
If I could wear your clothes
I'd pretend I was you and lose control
There'll be some love making, heart breaking, soul shaking
Oh love making, heart breaking, soul shaking, oh yeah


Running in and out my life has got me so confused
You gotta make the sacrifice
Somebody's got to choose
We can make it if we try, for the sake of you and I
Together we can make it right


Love, Em

15 Comments:

Blogger hyperamos said...

How about.....
You want him/her to have the best, even if she/he may not know you're the one, or even may not appreciate if he'she know it is you.
Or simply, you just want to go out with him/her more often. =)

3:25 AM  
Blogger lu said...

You find it hard to sleep; not necessarily consciously thinking about the other person but because your heart is racing...

You find it harder to tease the person the same way as when (or if) you were just friends.

7:02 AM  
Blogger McCartney said...

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2:49 AM  
Blogger McCartney said...

=D Someone Sweet will come along for Ya !!!

2:51 AM  
Blogger ugly dude naz said...

He/she is the person that you keep thinking before you sleep and the first thing you wake up!!

Suddenly everyone in the street looks like him/her;)

All his/her words sounds like poetry!!

Hehe....hey Em....im sure the right person is that far away from you!!:)...You will have a blissful life soon....Keep smiling!

7:11 AM  
Blogger Bha'ral said...

bah! Not big on these "what is love things" as I'm an engo (we are MEN! I know, it's sad) but I'd add something along the lines of being deliriously happy. Only I don't know how to work these blog thi...
Ok, just worked it out. I was typing the above in the cbox. I know, 4+ years at uni and I can totally work out a blog. Value.

Wait... let me get back "on topic" here:

When I really click with someone, I feel energised - as in, in their presence, I can keep on going no matter what. I feed off their energy. I could work around the clock with them, and never stop working.
The hours pass fast.

...

The vastness of life, spread like the desert, collapses down to reveal a great canyon, a river flowing through it that pulsates with electricity. You could curl there, on an island by the river, for hours with that person - the desert above freezes, but you are warm.

I suppose the danger is that, given that position, I could forget life, which might lead to issues later on!

Ok, that's the last I try anything literary. I feel ridiculous.

12:52 PM  
Blogger ugly dude naz said...

'Suddenly everyone in the street looks like him/her;)'

Haha...actually i agree that this sound more like infatuation than true....but if becomes too long a time...than he/she is someone truly you like, or its time for you to seek psychiatrist help!! haha

So lovely EM, you are going to perform in Chingay right? Hope you have a marvelous time entertaining the people, im sure many will look forward to your performance, I do:)

Hey any plans on the way for an album? I hope you will have one soon if not later:)

So, you still thinking of this guy? If you are, it is best that you tell him your feeling...you never know he might feels the same for you:) Also my thinking is to wait for the right moment can be a forgone conclusion as he might just move on. I rather tell the person how i feel than not to tell her at all. But this is one of my principles in life. Everyone got their views on things.

Hey wish you have a lovely lovely weekend. It has been a tiring time for me at work(been back only recently). So will have a good rest. Hope you too:)

Muackkzz
naz

4:52 PM  
Blogger emilee said...

Hi Naz!! so early ah? Album..no la..too expensive plus got no angle yet..lol..about the 'guy'..well..i seriously believe in the saying 'if it's mine, it will be mine eventually' such things cannot be forced u know..i just allow nature to take it's own course..right now, career comes first and i will rather be single than to anyhow date..u know what i mean?

Even if i were to end up an old maid(which i probably will) i guess its the will of God.

Even if i were to end up loving someone who will never love me, i will still love the person for as long as i live..

Even if i have to live with the pain of seeing him with someone else, I will live with it only because I know he is truly happy.

Even if I never get to put my arms around him to comfort him when he's sad, at least I know I have done my best.

Even if he doesn't treat me as good a friend as I treat him, I will live with it because his happiness comes first.

Have a beautiful beautiful weekend!! take care naz..:p

5:31 PM  
Blogger ugly dude naz said...

Yup, early:) Thats my life for many years now...hehe...

No album? Hmm...i do hope that that offer will come your way soon:)

How can you be an old maid? Haha....i will rescue you from being one;)!! hehe

'Even if i have to live with the pain of seeing him with someone else, I will live with it only because I know he is truly happy'.

Hey EM, one can never be sure if that person is really happy....maybe he will be happier with you? Think about it.....there is a probable chance that you can bring more happiness to him than that someone.

Got to go out and meet some friends now, before have a good weekend break. You go out and have the loveliest of weekend yeah!!

Muackkzz
naz

8:21 PM  
Blogger emilee said...

Hey naz..I do meet a lot of new people everyday..but you know, i'm kind of quiet ard new people and I don't trust easily..with gals I'm completely at ease but with guys i'm distant..
Anyway, i don't think he will find more happiness with me la..I'm a bad girl..a very very bad girl..Not the girl-next-door type..unimaginably naughty and playful..plus I look like a bad girl..I don't think he likes that very much..lol..
hey do drop by insomnia soon..sms nana!

:p

5:45 PM  
Blogger ugly dude naz said...

Hey EM, im sure that you see lots of new people everyday. There are too many kinds out there....funny, snob, good, bad, weird...so i guess you need to make use of your instinct to know which one you can be comfortable with.

Hmm, whether you are bad or very bad person(hehehe), does not make any difference, at least to me...i think the most important thing is to be yourself and have your friends respect you for that. I think such quality of being truthful to oneself is one that i will cherish more:)

So how was your weekened? What have you been doing today? You take care yeah...snd be happy too:)

Muackkz
naz

2:58 AM  
Blogger emilee said...

hey naz..couldn't agree more with what you are saying..my weekend was ok la..busy cos preparing for chingay performance..will update everyone once all is confirmed..been hanging out with my best friend as and when i can..once i get really busy..i will be REALLY busy..haahah..looking forward to getting more jobs..haha..
how about you? take care..remember to eat more healthy food...hahaha(my mum's nagging is rubbing off on me..)

4:00 PM  
Blogger ugly dude naz said...

Hey EM, good to know that you are busy....busy means got work...work means got money!! Haha...in this world we need money to survive:)......

Hey friends are hard to come by, genuine friends especially. So do cherish them while they are still around:)

Hahaha....maybe you are beginning to be an auntie to be nagging like your mum!!...hehe...dun get offended...im just kidding:)...nah it is good to nag when the intention is good. No worries, i appreciate it:) What healthy food yeah? Im taking a very balance meal always. Like Red meat, Fish and Vege. Miss eating sashimi actually!! haha...one of my fav!! yum yum...

Hey you take care yeah...and have a beautiful weekend again!!

Muackkz
naz

8:36 PM  
Blogger emilee said...

thanks naz ..u have a great weekend too..i'm sooooo exhausted...gonna knock out soon..:)

take care..:p

11:03 PM  
Blogger ugly dude naz said...

Hope you had a good rest EM?:)

11:47 PM  

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