THOUGHTS '3' -updated version #3
"Fear is nothing but absence of love. Do something with love, forget about fear. If you love well, fear disappears."
-Osho I'm gonna start filling in number 6 onwards plus input my comments and further thoughts about the points..Do feel free to input more comments!! :)
I was just talking to Nana (my best friend) about stuff when the topic of 'matters of the heart' came up. I realized that I have actually forgotten what it feels like to LIKE someone..Strange huh...yeah well..that's me I guess..lol
My weird conclusions -
1) So when you look into his/her eyes and you want to concentrate on what he/she is talking about but you realize you can't because you are having this light-headed feeling and all you can think about is how it would be like to kiss him/her and you just want to look into his/her eyes forever if you can.
2) You are DELIRIOUSLY happy when you're with him/her.
3) You don't mind making a fool of yourself...sometimes.
4) You think about him/her.
5) You have the urge to communicate often. (but don't do it as it might piss him/her off!).....6) Love is a feeling so ever strong that you could risk everything of yours, including your life, for the person you like when it is being treated nicely, but when betrayed, it is such a destructive force that can destroy every single thing which you have built up with ur love one over years within a matter of seconds.
(contributed by Ken) My comment:[True but can be avoided as long as one is not selfish with the space needed between two lovers..also, not to confuse 'betrayal' with pettiness)7) You want him/her to have the best, even if she/he may not know you're the one, or even may not appreciate if he/she know it is you.
Or simply, you just want to go out with him/her more often. =)
(contributed by Hyperamos) My comment: [A giving spirit without expecting much in return..Same sentiment as myself..It's not easy to be this way though..unless you are truly in LOVE]8) You find it hard to sleep; not necessarily consciously thinking about the other person but because your heart is racing...
You find it harder to tease the person the same way as when (or if) you were just friends.
(contributed by lu) My comment:[maybe this is the reason why i cannot sleep..lol]9) He/she is the person that you keep thinking before you sleep and the first thing you wake up!!
Suddenly everyone in the street looks like him/her;)
All his/her words sounds like poetry!!
(contributed by ugly dude naz) My comment: [Can be true but sounds to me more like an infatuation?]10) The thought of losing his/her friendship brings so much pain that you would rather remain friends than take the risk of telling him/her. If he/she doesn't like you, and he/she knows you like him/her, things might become awkward and never be the same again.
(contributed by Emilee) [ok fine..For the non risk-takers, this point is valid. however, it's always better to be as honest as you can..sometimes we're just waiting for the right time, a suitable situation to do something about it, or just to wait for the other party to make the first move( only if he/she happens to share the same feelings)..if not, things are better left just as they are]11) When you want to dedicate En Vogue's 'Dont Let Go' to him/her. Lyrics are below..
12) When I really click with someone, I feel energised - as in, in their presence, I can keep on going no matter what. I feed off their energy. I could work around the clock with them, and never stop working. The hours pass fast.
The vastness of life, spread like the desert, collapses down to reveal a great canyon, a river flowing through it that pulsates with electricity. You could curl there, on an island by the river, for hours with that person - the desert above freezes, but you are warm.
(contributed by bha'ral)My comment:[very true..along the lines of being deliriously happy, very distracted and time passing too fast..sigh..i miss feeling this way..]13) When you will go to any extend to put a smile on his/her face, even if it means sacrificing yourself in more ways than one.
[The important point to note here is that you will never want him/her to find out!! As you are doing it for him/her to make him/her happy, you definitely do not want him/her to find out or he/she will feel bad, guilty and he/she will feel like he/she owes you something, which is not a good feeling to have!!]14) You lose concentration, everything reminds you of him/her. You talk about him/her nonstop. Your best friend tells you to shut up because his/her ears cannot take it anymore. LOL :p
ok people..I OFFICIALLY NEED HELP..I can only come up with 5 and that's just sad!!
Anyone of you out there who have better conclusions PLEASE PLEASE do leave a comment here!#I have been a naughty naughty girl.
En Vogue - Don't Let Go
What's it gonna be?
Cuz I can't pretend
Don't you wanna be more than friends?
Hold me tight and don't let go
Don't let go
Have the right to lose control
Don't let go
I often tell myself
That we could be more than just friends
I know you think that if we move too soon
It would all end
I live in misery when you're not around
And I won't be satisfied 'till we're taking those vows
There'll be some love making, heart breaking, soul shaking
Oh, love making, heart breaking, soul shaking
I often fantasize
The stars above are watching you
They know my heart and speak to yours
Like only lovers do
If I could wear your clothes
I'd pretend I was you and lose control
There'll be some love making, heart breaking, soul shaking
Oh love making, heart breaking, soul shaking, oh yeah
Running in and out my life has got me so confused
You gotta make the sacrifice
Somebody's got to choose
We can make it if we try, for the sake of you and I
Together we can make it rightLove, Em
